THE DREAM ZONE |
with Lauri Quinn Loewenberg My boyfriend had a dream that I broke up with him to date a friend of his, whom I do not even know. He said it was because I told him I wanted more. Not more in the relationship, but more in penis size. Sherry, 34, Boston, MA Lauri:How trusting of him to share this dream with you! Is he concerned in real life about his ... size? If so, the dream may simply be playing out one of his fears. Our dreams will do that sometimes, place us in a worst-case scenario so that we can safely figure out—in our head—how to handle such a situation should it ever arise. His friend in the dream is not playing himself, but rather symbolizes friendship in general. Your boyfriend may have some concerns that your relationship feels more like a friendship than a passionate, intimate relationship, and the fact that you wanted more size in his dream may mean that he feels you want more passion. Have things gotten a little too routine with you two? Have you hit a humdrum phase in your relationship? This dream may be a wake up call to spice it up. Jennifer replies: Yes, he is concerned about his size in real life. I have no idea why, though. It's a perfect size. Not too big and not too small—just perfect. I tell him that all of the time. His sex drive isn't what it used to be. He did hurt his back, so we hadn't really had sex for a couple of weeks. Fascinating Sleep Fact: There's a newly discovered metdical condition called "sexsomnia," which is defined as "making sexual advances toward another person while asleep." Most of the time, sleep sex occurs between people that are already partners, and in some instances, the subjects claim to like it better than awake sex. Lauri Quinn Loewenberg's website is thedreamzone.com |
ARIES
(March 20-April 20)
The new moon arrives this week, little ram. Make your wish. Set a goal or two—something you would like to accomplish within the month. Sing "Happy Birthday" to your Sag pals who are about to finish up their birthday celebrations. Capricorn birthdays start next week. Hanukkah begins at sundown on Friday. And Christmas slides in next week. Saturn brings structure to the creative department, dear little ram. I met my husband while Saturn transited my same space. True Saturn aspect: He indeed is a little older. The moon's in Libra today. The peacemaker brings balance to the relationship department, both personal and business. Now do take the time to pass on some of your knowledge. Venus sends money from the career department.
TAURUS
(April 20-May 21)
Saturn gets a wink from the moon today. Yes indeed, little bull, daily chores flow smoothly today. New moon arrives next Wednesday, so spend the first part of the week thinking about the goal you would enjoy achieving within the next month. Indeed, make your monthly wish. Others send support this week. Jupiter, the Santa of the planets, visits your space where others are willing to give assistance. It's been 12 long years since Jupiter visited this space. Others will certainly notice you this year. Hanukkah begins on Saturday, and Christmas arrives next week.
GEMINI
(May 21-June 21)
So you are busy this week, little twin. I know your relationship department is full. Yes indeed, business, friends and family. Hanukkah is celebrated on Saturday. Next week, Christmas Eve and Santa arrive. Career opportunities could suddenly flow your way and, oh my, the communication department is full speed ahead. Now do not forget—a new moon arrives this week. Make your wish and set a goal. Monday is one great day to meet with business partners. Yes indeed, Pluto joins up with the sun. Good for big business relationships. Gain some knowledge.
CANCER
(June 21-July 22)
Keep your little claws on what you value. Yes indeed, I know you little crabs are adding structure to your sandcastles. The new moon slides in as the week ends on the 20th. Make your wish and set a goal or two. You may be too busy next week. Yes indeed, Santa arrives. This Saturday is Hanukkah. Your daily work schedule is filled with excitement, both pleasure and work. In the relationship department, all goes nicely this week. Remember, little crab, build exercise into your daily schedule. Use your energy wisely.
LEO
(July 23-Aug. 23)
Sudden opportunities could flow your way this week, little kitty. Others may show an interest in your creative ideas. Lady Luck rolls in on your side. Enjoy. Have fun. Wish a Sag happy birthday. Yes indeed, you are known as the party sign of the zodiac. Santa arrives next week. Saturday is the beginning of Hanukkah. The new moon appears this week. Now you, dear little lion, make your wish and set your monthly goal. Saturn is teaching you to get organized. Watch your spending. You know what your values are. A chat with someone could work to your advantage this week.
VIRGO
(Aug. 23-Sept. 23)
I know your relationships have been full speed ahead with family and business. Now, dear little Virgo, the new moon arrives this week, so make your wish and set your monthly goal. Hanukkah arrives on Saturday. Next week, Santa arrives, and your schedule is full. You love to detail, and others know you listen and show concern. Now if you get the opportunity, take a little time off and celebrate with your Sag pals as they wind down their month of birthday celebrations. The sun hooks up with Pluto on Monday. This would be an excellent day to bring family business to the home front. Talk with a sibling.
LIBRA
(Sept. 23-Oct. 23)
With six of the 10 planets visiting your space of communication, you find yourself chatty with neighbors and family members. Indeed, the holiday season has arrived. Many of you little peacemakers may decide it is time for a new auto. Oh my, such a nice Christmas present. Short journeys are also favored with Sagittarius, the traveler of the zodiac. The moon holds hands with Pluto as the week comes to a close. Now don't get a little jealous. Pluto sometimes digs deep. Keep your emotions in balance. You hold the scales of the zodiac and indeed know how to balance all issues. Sing "Happy Birthday" to your Sag pals as their sign is packed with six planets. Remember, Sag enjoys your air sign. You keep their energy level flowing. Remember, you fan the fire.
SCORPIO
(Oct. 23-Nov. 22)
Yes indeed, Mr. Detective, with Saturn in the high spot of your chart, you indeed have friends in high places. Some older, some younger, some mentors—just when you may need them. Remember to let go of anything that is not working. No need to carry excess baggage. This could also include a few associations. The new moon arrives on Wednesday. Wait until we are between the new moon and the full moon to make major decisions, Mr. Scorpio. Don't make any decisions while under stress. Next week could be a better time for decision-making. Hanukkah begins on Saturday. The moon is in your sign. Spend time by the water—seashore if possible.
SAGITTARIUS
(Nov. 22-Dec. 21)
Happy birthday. Yes indeed, this is your last week of birthday celebrations. Santa arrives next week. Now make your yearly wish and set your goal this week, and indeed the new moon arrives on Wednesday. Go ahead and set your monthly goal. On Monday, the moon moves into your sign, dear Sag, for a total of six of the 10 planets. Your energy level is high. Watch your spending. Spend your time by yourself this week, and while the moon is in Scorpio you may be surprised by what you dream. Your intuition is in high gear. Saturn retrograde gives you the opportunity to get organized. Yes indeed, higher knowledge takes center stage. As the travelers of the zodiac, some of you Sags may gain knowledge through travel. Jupiter is in your sign, and opportunities flow your way.
CAPRICORN
(Dec. 22-Jan. 20)
So you feel the energy. Now is the time to get off the mountain. Yes indeed, next week you begin a month of birthday celebrations, and Santa arrives. An award could arrive, too. Venus brings both the love and money to your sign, dear Capricorn. You could indeed hook up with a business partner. Could be someone you have been working with behind the scenes. Maybe an older, experienced person. Some of you goats may be meeting with tax people this week. You are the worker of the zodiac. Finish your chores this week. Next week you may spend time celebrating your birthday as well as Christmas. Now remember, all work and no play can make Jack a dull boy.
AQUARIUS
(Jan. 20-Feb. 18)
With so many planets in Sag, you now have so many new and unique ideas. Okay, little genius, take one step at a time. Simplify your life. Don't toss all your ideas into one basket. Go for serious meetings and indeed discuss your hopes, wishes and goals. Many of you dear little Aquarians are sharing your higher knowledge with your Sag pals as they finish up their birthday month this week. New moon arrives on Wednesday. Make your monthly wish and remember, Santa arrives next week. Saturn sends a wink to the sun on Sunday, and recognition from others, both business and personal, may come your way. Yes indeed, people could recognize your achievements.
PISCES
(Feb. 18-March 20)
Take time to focus this week. This is a nice time to contemplate the future. Yes indeed, new moon arrives on Wednesday. Set your goal and make your monthly wish. Some of you little fish may want to swim back and try something again. Take stock and analyze. Talk with people in authority. Saturn moving retrograde gives you more time to get organized. Build structure with your daily work. Your Sag pals wind up their month of birthday celebrations, and Sag indeed is the sign in your career space where you deal with people in authority. Click in with their higher knowledge department, dear little Pisces.
Peggy Allison is the author of The Fundamentals of Astrology: A Comprehensive Guide for the Beginner. She is a professional astrologer who lives on St. Thomas in the Virgin Islands and prepares personal astrological charts. Contact her at 340-774-2932, 340-513-3755 or at [email protected].