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with Lauri Quinn Loewenberg I was shopping in a very high-end mall. Surprisingly, everything was extremely affordable! A silk blouse was only $6. I'm having a wonderful time when I suddenly realize there's a giant nail in my right arm! Apparently, I recently had some sort of surgery. I wonder to myself if the doctor meant to leave the nail there.
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I really screwed up and now I need to know how to regain my balance and direction.
I had a "boy" (34 years old) follow me back to the mainland from Maui, where I lived for two years. We are close, have a spiritual and sometimes sexual connection, but I'm NOT in love with him. I moved into a living situation with him here in Vegas because he promised me security and stability—"no strings attached." (Well, there are always "strings," aren't there?)
It turns out he and I have hardly anything in common, and here I am living in a really shabby apartment that doesn't even have furniture. (Unfortunately, what we did have in common in Hawaii was using marijuana and enjoying the beach; neither of those things are applicable in my life now.)
I gave up my two-bedroom home in the Midwest (where I stayed between Hawaii and Las Vegas), my car and my independence to chase a pipe dream of being a stay-at-home mom (i.e., having a baby with this person) and, yes, being "taken care of" by a loving partner.
Mona, I'm a very smart, worldly, spiritual woman who has simply always wanted to help others and evolve in a positive way each day. I feel mired in a perpetual "Groundhog Day" and an endless "loop" where every day seems barely different from the last!
If you can give me some insights, you'll be doing the whole world (not just me) a favor!
Dear Aloha,
Take what you can pack into a bag and leave—book a ticket on Greyhound if you must. Skip away with adventure in your heart and the knowledge that it will only get better from here. I recommend that you head to a friend's home in the Midwest for about two to three weeks and heal. Leave your young man a letter that it's time for you to live again and disappear. Tell him that you love him in your own way, but things are not going how you'd hoped.
Do whatever you can to get away from the drug that is this man because you two are lazy together. Think of your relationship as two lost people who find each other and it takes them a while to realize that even though they're together, they're still lost. That's why you're bad for each other.
This is the time for action, not complacency. Your soul mate is about 18 months away and not in Las Vegas.
Note: I occasionally enjoy printing responses from people who write to me, especially when I feel it's meaningful. Below is Tool Time's reaction to my response to his letter last week:
Dear Mona,
I was getting ready to contact an attorney, but I hadn't thought about the copyrighting procedure. I've heard about the capital situations you described, but your comments have given me more depth in that area.
The part about being "reluctant" to tell me I already understood due to my practice of numerology. In doing all three of our numbers previously, I learned that not only am I soul mates with my friend's wife, but I'm also soul mates with my friend. I also know that my friend and his wife are not soul mates, along with most of the couples I've done using numerology. I put a high value on soul-mate status because I know it's not as common as some people might think. You are exactly right about having known each other in previous lifetimes.
Your description of compassionate love is what I experienced in my divine intervention. It's called God's Love and it was confirmed to me in the form of a message one night. I also describe it as an un-Earthly love, and it has no boundaries. It's also interesting how you described the love for what we're doing; my friend and I love what we're doing, but we're not in love with money.
Mona Van Joseph is a licensed professional in the psychic arts through the city of Las Vegas. Her show, Midnights with Mona, airs weeknights on KDWN 720 AM. You may e-mail questions to [email protected].