I had a dream last night that I was at a wedding at the Playboy Mansion, but the groom never showed up so we partied. I remember thinking how cool it was that there were people for my every need. I was hungry, there was a servant. I needed a drink but couldn’t decide, then one would show up. It was cool. I said that I could live this life as long as I didn’t have to sleep with Hef! I asked if he had a son, then I woke up. – Julie 30, Nashville, TN

Lauri: The wedding may mean that you need to make a commitment to someone or something, or perhaps even to yourself, but you must not be taking it seriously enough. You would rather “play,” hence the Playboy Mansion, rather than meet an obligation. That groom that never shows up is your male, take-action self. It may be time to hunt him down and get serious!

Julie replies: WOW! That is right on. My doctor made me commit to a 5K run in March. I currently am an occasional walker. My word means everything to me, so I‘ll follow through with the commitment. I just don’t want to get started training just yet. WOW!