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with Lauri Quinn Loewenberg I saw a plane crash. A man and a woman on the plane were dressed in white pilot suits. I saw the man's leg lying by itself and the head in a different area.
A plane symbolizes anything we want to keep up, such as our self-esteem, a relationship, finances, etc. What in your life seems headed in the wrong direction? The severed head and leg indicate some sort of separation in your life. The pilot is the part of your personality in control, as well as your ability to keep your spirits and other elements of your life on the "up and up." What's happened lately to this part of yourself? The head is your ego, reason and intellect and the leg is your ability to support yourself financially and emotionally. Has there been a separation of reason and stability? Are you not thinking straight lately? Has your ego been crushed? Are you feeling unstable, emotionally or financially? Regardless, in the dream you weren't the one in the crash, which means you're a survivor.
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I'm not really interested in having my letter addressed on your radio show but man I really need some help. I was born in Orange, California on July 18, 1968 at 8:20a.m. I have two questions and I really hope you might answer them for me. First, I think this girl I have been seeing has slept with someone else. Am I wrong? And second, what the heck am I doing? I'm lost with no direction or motivation. Why?
Dear Hot Talk Fan,
At this moment, the gal you've been seeing hasn't slept with anyone else. However, she's keeping her options open because she's not sure about you and she's a flirt. She thinks you haven't decided what you're doing with your life and for her to be sure about you, she needs to know. There's also a struggle between what your mom wanted you to do with your life and what you want to do. If you can't handle the challenge presented to you by your family members, then how will you handle the criticism when it is presented from the outside? The most valuable preparation for life is often how a person handles their own parents' disapproval. You've received the best card in my deck for outcome. It predicts success in all areas of your life. Take inventory of your skills and decide what your next career step will be. Stop allowing others to take credit for your work. All you really need is a tad more confidence.
Within the next 18 months, you'll meet the woman who's really your soul mate. It's OK with me if you want to continue seeing your current gal, but you can do better.
I am engaged to Silver State Daughter's Father. As well as you know she and her brother are having a hard time dealing with the divorce of their parents. They hate me for stepping into the picture and being good women for their father. I understand that this is very hard for them to deal with but it is equally as hard on my part. I've got three children, a son that's 10 and two daughters that are 19 and 21. They love him to death, so it is hard to see his children not like me. My children are saying, "Mom, do you really want a relationship with a man whose kids don't like you? What kind of holiday is that going to make?" The bigger question, will he grow to resent me because his children are not coming around?
What do you see in the cards? Do I walk away at this point because of the kids and wait to see what happens in the future? There are a lot of other things that I'm sure the cards will tell you. I've been a firm believer in readings all my life and I was going to have my cards read in the next week. But when this all came up with you, my man and his daughter, I decided to write you instead.
Dear SSD Dad's Gal,
I am astonished that you had the gumption to write me about your new relationship. You can have this man in your life, but don't count on his kids liking the idea—especially because you've moved in so soon. If you're really serious, do not live with him, but continue dating him and marry him after a year. The kids are more likely to come around if there's less of a rush.
Look at the example you're setting for your children and how fast you were willing to change your life for this man. Your daughters are learning that their lives have little meaning unless there's a man around and your son is learning that women will do anything to have a man. You have the power to teach them a different lesson.
Mona Van Joseph is a psychic in Las Vegas: E-mail: [email protected].