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with Lauri Quinn Loewenberg I climbed up a ladder leaning against a stack of four giant pancakes about 20 feet high. I had this pen-size bottle of syrup that I tried to pour on top of these enormous pancakes. What do you make of this?
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I'm working on women's issues regarding sexual violence by the military here in Honolulu. I'd planned to be back in London, where I have a small office, by the end of March, but was thinking it would be quite nice if I could postpone it until late April. My work centers around human rights/humanitarian issues and I'd originally planned some activities during April. However, I'm rather torn, as I do have family/friends here in Honolulu and had wanted to work further on these important women's issues here. Can you advise as to the best time I should go back to London?
Dear BK,
I must address not only your request concerning timing, but also other influences. You're a natural fighter; you seem to enjoy having an excuse to take action because of it. I admire that you take the "B" word as a compliment. The biggest lesson connected with your question is not necessarily the timing of going back to London (which I see as good within the next four months), but your dogged attempt to control the outcome.
There's new, important information and help being filtered to you that you haven't been willing to accept. It's time to learn to delegate (or ask for assistance) instead of trying to do it all yourself. It's delegation that allows you to create a new family of powerful friends and allies. This isn't the time to cling to how you want the outcome to be—it'll be bigger than you expect. It's instead that last project you know has to be handled by someone—you.
I see a light-haired woman who's loyal to you—there's a lot of love there, it feels romantic to me. She's reserved and quieter than most of your acquaintances—that's the woman to draw out. She'll help make your circle of influence larger and more effective. You're quite a dynamic woman, but this light-haired woman is supposed to teach you how to be receptive: balance and integration.
An issue involving two men needs to be settled before you go. The younger man has a nasty, violent temper but has convinced an older man (sergeant/captain?) that he's not at fault. Your goal is to prove to the older man that the younger man isn't what he's presenting himself to be. Once you prove that, you'll have the loyalty of the older man—you two will become confidants. That's the last task before your trip.
You've found your purpose in life. I'm honored that you wrote to me.
2004 was such a terrible year for me. I rallied and things have changed for the better in almost every way, but the last eight months I can't shake the (for lack of a better word) sadness. I know my life is better, so how much longer is the cloud going to hover over me?
Dear K,
Even though that time was uncomfortable, it was familiar and exciting. You feel more alive in "crisis" than you do now. That crisis energy needs to be directed differently. You're motivated by constant change and the more of that you can incorporate into your life, the more fulfilling your life will be.
You remind me of our military veterans—that their sacrifices have protected our beloved country. Once the fight is over, what do they do with their lives? You create catastrophe because you really do your best stuff under pressure.
Pretend, if you must, that your life is in crisis now—that's true or you'd be entirely satisfied with the plateau you've reached. You'd be a marvelous day trader/stockbroker because that pressure actually feels good to you.
Shoot a little higher: It's time to create your identity again.
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Mona Van Joseph is a licensed professional in the psychic arts through the city of Las Vegas. You may e-mail questions to [email protected].