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with Lauri Quinn Loewenberg My dream took place at a campsite. A local DJ and I were in this truck and she was driving. She stopped to make sure I had my seatbelt on and that it was secure. We then took off and flew over this huge lake, which seemed impossible to get over.
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I am hoping to get some insight on my situation. My family (4 of us) has moved from the bay area 18 months ago with the notion that we were doing the right thing. For over 12 months my family and I have come to the realization this is not true. We have put our house up for sale in hopes of moving back to our old area and were wondering if this is the path we should take. I would appreciate any feelings you may have with regards to my dilemma.
I see that the sale of your house will be finalized by the 17th of September and that you can plan your move for the end of September. You were supposed to be here for the time that you were and I need you to write down what you've learned from living here. Because I consider Las Vegas the biggest spiritual final exam a soul can experience, what huge lesson did you learn here? Ask all your family members to answer these three questions:
1. What did I like/not like about Las Vegas,
2. What did I learn from living in Las Vegas?
3. How am I stronger because of this experience?
I do see a big beneficial change for you by the end of September and that the whole family can't wait for the change. This time in our city has benefited you in some way however; either there's a better job situation awaiting you or your husband, a profitable investment from your home, or there was a personal connection that you could have only made here. Whatever it is, you are better for the future because you lived here. Make a total commitment to your life with the move. Go for that job you want, call all your friends, and dive into reconnecting with "home."
In early July I ran into an old friend named Jamie (who is a man from high school) at a town festival and we had a unplanned sex. Then we had dinner two weeks later, and a lot of phone conversations after the dinner until two weeks ago, and now nothing. He has recently fallen off the radar screen. I'm not sure what's up now!?
Not that it really matters, but I am a Gemini and he a Pisces. Will this turn into a relationship other than friends, and if so when do you think? Perhaps by fall or year-end?
I want you to dump the guilt you're carrying around about the "unplanned sex." You are dealing with a man who's still struggling with his purpose in this lifetime. Also, the Gemini/Pisces combination is both exciting and challenging. No problems in the bedroom with you two; however, you'll find that you'll be the one who initiates sex more often than he does.
Notice that I am speaking to you as if there is a future with this relationship. The reason he's pulled back is that he's thinking, "Wow, I like her but I think she wants me to move in and fold sheets." You're thinking, "Wow, we connected so great—I think we have a future together."
This is what you do: Call him and say the following : "Hey Jamie, it's me. I haven't heard from you for a while and wondered what you've been up to? Listen, I think it's great that you and I reconnected and I hope whatever happens from this point on, we can stay friends. I like our energy together and hope we stay in touch. Talk to you later, bye for now."
Then, no matter how hard it is for you, do not call him again unless he calls. The cards tell me that the two of you could be really good together as long as you can absolutely trust him. For now however, I want you to think of Jamie as the guy who helped you open your heart again to the possibility of love. You are destined to be in a loving relationship within the next six months. Think of your self as someone special and everyone else will too.
Mona Van Joseph is a licensed professional in the psychic arts. Her live, local radio show airs 10 a.m. Saturdays on Hot Talk 1140-AM. E-mail [email protected].