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with Lauri Quinn Loewenberg I'm sitting on the stairs of a large library. A bald eagle lands, climbs into my arms and lays its head on my shoulder. I stroke it head to tail while it makes appreciative noises. Its feet squeeze my arm, and though painful, it's not unbearable because of the overwhelming honor and joy I experience.
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Won't you be surprised to hear from a married woman, madly in love with her married co-worker? It's a situation as lovely as it is desperate. Is there any future here? I don't enjoy the duplicity or lack of resolution. I'd like to be with him, but only if it can be OK for us and our families. How could I find true love at such an inopportune time?
Dear Limbo Lady,
This relationship has no future. But you experienced the best of you because it was reflected back by someone else. This tryst is "charged" because it's naughty and sneaky. Give your husband that same attention and he'll reflect it back to you, too. Before you do anything you'll regret, change jobs. You're having wild fantasy thoughts about being with this co-worker, but it's not OK for everyone involved if you acted on this folly.
I do tarot, but you're a lot better. I wonder about this girl I've dated for a month. I messed up because I was afraid and expressed myself wrong. My readings always indicated success, but I've had dreams that show me clinging to her. I'm wondering how our relationship will turn out, whether it's friends, dating, or lost. Thanks. You're awesome!
Lost Love?
Dear Lost Love,
This gal isn't ready for a relationship. I hate to say this, but you were a "transition" relationship for her. However, the scales are balanced—women in your past have been transition relationships for you. You want to connect with her because she's one of the few women you've met who's attractive, has a strong sense of herself and is confident.
She's not fooling around with men who don't know what they want and in her mind, you're one of the guys she discovered was not a good fit for her, long-term. Close this chapter in your life. Release the guilt that you could have handled things better with her.
The success in love you're seeing in your cards is a new relationship with a woman with blond hair and hazel eyes. She's a pretty free spirit and is so intuitively wired that she'll connect with you quickly on a pretty intimate level. That's who you'll love for the rest of your life and you'll meet her within the next year. Thanks for the kind words. You'll be good at the cards as well once you have a little more experience.
My brother and his fiancée are moving to Utah by the first of the year; I might join them next July. I want to know if that would be a positive decision, because all my friends hate the idea. Will I meet a decent guy out there? Will I be financially stable or will it just be a waste of money to move out there? I don't want to feel like I'm lost in the dark.
Dear Waiting,
Don't even think about moving to Utah unless you want to feel worse about your life. You'll meet "the guy" here. In October, your life really comes together romantically. The next year is about finding work you like, expanding your network of friends, and having an awful lot of fun in the meantime.
Don't allow anyone to make decisions about your life. You're young, pretty, delightful and smart. Get connected in the community here and notice who's noticing you. The man I see you with has brown hair, blue eyes, no children, ex-wives, strange proclivities or unattractive traits. He probably doesn't drink, smoke or gamble, he's athletic—a runner's physique—and is a bit shy.
Mona Van Joseph is a licensed psychic. E-mail: [email protected].